Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Rejections in One Night

So, I was out a few nights ago sitting up at the bar having my dinner and really just people watching. People watching is a hoppy of mine probably because I have been in the hospitality industry since I was 15 years old and I have seen many interesting things. So, when I go out I have more fun really just watching the others around me and seeing what type of antics they do.

One this night there were these two girls sitting a few seats down from me and I could hear them talking about the different guys that were there are the bar. This one girl, we will call her blondie, had brought these two guys a shot. Well, the guys took the shot and finally came over to thank the girls for them. Now, sometimes the conversations will last a few minutes or so but this one was more of a thank you and bye. Once the guys left the girls were shocked that the guys did not want to stay longer to chat or have a drink with them.

About fifteen minutes later the girls try it again with another two guys. This time the guys looked over at the girls said thank you and then walked away. Now, I am sitting here thinking ok you have struck out twice now so maybe they will give up. Nope that was not the case. About another fifteen minutes or later go by and the girls buy another shot for their third round of guys. This time the guys were sitting next to me so I was right in the middle this time. The guys took the shots and turned their heads to thank the girls and that was it. These guys that were sitting next to me were talking and they were talking about why would you buy a shot or drink for someone and not even come and say hello. The other guy agreed and said that they had brought drinks for the guys behind them earlier so they had no interest at all talking to the girls.

So, my thing is this for all the guys and women out there. How many times is enough to be rejected in one night? I know we all do not like to admit rejection, but I am sure we all have been there before. I would be interested in knowing what you think. I know once I hit two times that it is not my night and I am ready to pack it in. What about you?  

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